Basic BDSM chat rules
Basic BDSM chat rules one must bear in mind
There are a lot of people who have a BDSM fetish
, but are unable to discuss it even with their close friends for fear of being ostracized. In such cases, they are usually at a loss about how to satisfy their curiosity. Well, if you are one among them, BDSM chat
is just the thing you need. If you are just getting introduced to the world of BDSM
and want to be discreet, such chat rooms are a good place to begin, because you can easily chat with people who have interests that are similar to yours.
BDSM dating - NOT always extreme
Although the very thought of BDSM conjures up the image of leather strapped whip yielding women or men and women in handcuffs and other such gear, the truth is that not everyone has such extreme tastes in BDSM
, which is probably true for you as well. All you want is to stick to some online role play. This is exactly where such chat rooms feature. However, if you are getting into such chatting for the very first time, here are some rules you need to keep in mind. There is nothing overtly complicated about these rules, but it helps you to maintain your safety and security and a general decorum so to speak.
Firstly, minors are absolutely not allowed in such chat rooms and there are absolutely no exceptions to this rule whichever chat room you choose. If you spot a minor and fail to report them, and continue chatting with a boy or girl under the age of 18, you may be banned from accessing the website altogether because it is considered a serious offence.
Similarly, no child pornography is allowed in such chat rooms. Which means you cannot share videos, pictures or children under 18 or indulge in “age play” which is posing as a minor.
Acting out in incestuous roles is also not allowed in BDSM chat rooms, so keep your incest fantasies to yourself.
If you are using nicknames, you cannot come across as offensive, or racist. If you do you can face an immediate ouster from such chat rooms.
You are also not allowed to spam people wit unsolicited messages once you get their personal mail ids or chat ids. Do not try to be overtly friendly and send mails and chat messages very often, so much so that the person you are interested in gets irritated and loses all interest in you. If you are identified as a stalker will lead to a ban from such chat forums as well.
Respect the BDSM dating chat community
Finally, do keep in mind that the people you are chatting with are all respectable people with particular likes and dislikes so you cannot afford to be judgemental or rude. Everybody else in the chat room is as interested and curious about finding the “right” BDSM
match as you are, and thus you are expected to go about with it in a civilized manner. While everything happening in the chat room may not appeal to you, you do not get to sit on high pulpit and comment on it!
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